Building on a vulnerable foundation
I had begun to see a pattern in my life. With those people that I would open up to, to allow them to really see the true me, faults and strengths, I would begin to form incredible healthy, loving connections that made both of us in the relationship feel more whole, loved, and accepted. It is an amazing feeling. I will take that feeling over any other "high" any day, hands down. I saw a comment by one of my Wife's friends on Facebook this morning: " Today I realized that I am afraid to enter into a relationship space with a man because I am fearful that once I allow myself that vulnerability, I will completely lose myself within that person. That that person with then take advantage of the vulnerability. This is going to take longer than I thought." In my weird world of SSA, I am feeling exactly the same way. Oh, the complexity of life! While sexual intimacy will always be reserved for my sweetheart and true love, I am learning, a little painfully, tha