Trapped
Trapped Last night I read a post by a man in a similar situation to me. He mentioned that while he loves his wife and his family, he feels trapped. Here’s my response. TL;DR: The short answer is yes, I have felt trapped in the situation you described. The longer answer has me asking myself Why do I feel trapped? In any given space, I might feel restricted, even constricted at times, but not necessarily trapped. Even knowing that there is more outside that space doesn’t inherently make me feel trapped. What makes the difference? My experience is that I only begin to feel trapped when my needs cannot be reasonably met inside the space. Three obvious questions then: How do I stop feeling trapped, How do I know what I need, and What about commandments? The first question is the easiest. Whatever it is that you’re missing either must come into the space you are in, or you have to expand the space. If all your friends move, expanding your space could mean going o