Coming to terms with being married to a gay man
I wrote this post two weeks ago, as you will see at the bottom. I’m actually glad I didn’t post before as it gave me two weeks to put everything in a better perspective. Will has always been gay or attracted to men. Since he was 8, he knew he was different. Then, I assume, sometime a few years later he realized he was SSA (Same Sex Attracted). He had a goal in mind though; he was going to go on a mission, he was going to get married, he was going to have a family, and he was NOT going to be gay. Though that did get him where he wanted to be, and we think that the goal to not be gay was a good thing for our journey, the time comes when you have to be honest with yourself or you might explode! :) When Josh Weed came out (you can read our story about that here ) it allowed Will to be OK with being gay. That means he isn’t squashing those feeling anymore. And if he isn’t squashing those feelings, that means he is having them. ...