Coming to terms with being married to a gay man
I wrote this post two weeks ago, as you will see at the bottom. I’m actually glad I didn’t post before as it gave me two weeks to put everything in a better perspective. Will has always been gay or attracted to men. Since he was 8, he knew he was different. Then, I assume, sometime a few years later he realized he was SSA (Same Sex Attracted). He had a goal in mind though; he was going to go on a mission, he was going to get married, he was going to have a family, and he was NOT going to be gay. Though that did get him where he wanted to be, and we think that the goal to not be gay was a good thing for our journey, the time comes when you have to be honest with yourself or you might explode! :) When Josh Weed came out (you can read our story about that here ) it allowed Will to be OK with being gay. That means he isn’t squashing those feeling anymore. And if he isn’t squashing those feelings, that means he is having them. We are now also associating with lots o